i had a reali bad day.. this is my worst day ever in my life.. i nvr felt this sad, bad and angry b4.. i had a BIG FIGHT with my bf..
i oso dunno whether is i too demanding or him.. i even dunno whether is his fault or mine.. our distance getting far and far nowadays.. v keep having the same fight this month bt this time is the most serious one.. i not sure how to explain this bt i jz feel he doesn't love me the same anymore.. he doesn't care as much as last time.. i wanted to cry hardly in front of my mum or my best fren, Sab bt i cant.. cox i been lying to them tat i break up wif him last month..
in his sms, he said i nvr try to find ways to go his work place and accompany him.. bt he jz dun understand how busy i am preparing for spm.. i have tuition on mon, wed, thurs, fri and sat.. even sun i hav extra class or seminar.. on mon, i finish sch on 2.30pm and still go tuition til 7pm.. on wed and thurs after my co-curiculum activity i still hav 2 go tuition till 7pm.. and now even my oni free day which is fri oso go tutition till 4.30pm..
he jz dun understand how stress and busy i am starting this month.. he nvr giv chance 2 me explaining wat's happening and no giv time 2 me to chng myself and find time accompany me.. i dunno what's happening to him nowadays.. i dunno wat 2 do..
Tried having a non emotional talk with him?..
ReplyDeleteMeaning.. no crying/playing baby/cuddling/yelling/scolding..etc...
that sort of serious 1 to 1 talk but in a good manner.. have that, he'll learn how to respect you more. :] make sure you get straight to the point.. no guessing games..
hope it works out! :D
Cheers,
StrykerX